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A real psychology of love that helps you understand why dating tips don't help and what you can do RIGHT NOW to FIND LOVE!

Are you shutting yourself off from love?

Life was so simple when you were younger and you weren’t focused so hard on attracting a partner. You enjoyed dating and just assumed the right person would show up when the timing was right. After a while in the dating pool, you made a decision that you are ready for love and the lightness seemed to change. The search for the one became a serious mission and a process of dating drudgery.

Along the journey from single to relationship there are ups and downs. You revel in the excitement of meeting someone new, and then feel the despair of the person blowing you off or saying they aren’t ready for a commitment. This is also happens when you set on a personal development path with great enthusiasm knowing that you have the power to change your love life. Diving into the latest technique, you get enthusiastic believing if you could just visualize your goal everything will fall into place. As time wears on and no dates are in sight, you then start to get down on yourself as though nothing will ever going to change.

Whether you are starting a new business or setting the course for true love, the path isn’t always simple and clean. Along the way there are setbacks, disappointments and fears to face. Often when people are presented with those obstacles, they get discouraged and start to shut down. Closing the mental door to the possibility of success, they get sidetracked from their vision and start to have more faith in failure than their dreams.

When you close the doors and shut down, it is your ego’s way of staying in control. You believe that out there is more powerful than you. You feel dwarfed by the external results and the ability to control your destiny. If you hold this energy it doesn’t match what you want, it matches what you don’t want. You continue to create more of what you don’t want and spiral down in the wrong mental direction.

The most powerful thing you can do in these times of desperation is to keep opening the door to the possibility. Stop going in reverse closing down and shift into the energy of opening up to move you forward. Even when everything out there is showing you the opposite, you must hold the vision of what you want. You must keep opening up to receive.

Some people have lived decades in patterns of behavior that has led to their lack of love or money. A few weeks of positive thinking may not be enough to turn the tide. You may have to use extreme mental force to resist the temptation of shutting down and giving up in the beginning of your journey. When you force that door open in your mind consistently, you will start to see new opportunities flowing to you. This becomes easier with practice and eventually your new habit of being.

You see this happening with small things like when you wake up in a good mood and get green lights all the way to your destination. If you are in your own business you see the sales ebb and flow with your energy. I also don’t have to remind you of the familiar feast or famine syndrome in dating you probably know very well. Everything follows a specific energy and that energy is directed by you.

There is so much hidden in the subconscious mind that you cannot expect your life to go smoothly all the time. You can’t clear every block, so s*it is going to hit the fan every once in a while. If you can maintain your mental focus during times of despair, you have mastered your life. This is true freedom. You can choose to stay stuck in a funk or pick yourself up and keep moving toward what you want.

An easy way to do this is to imagine your big, powerful self larger than any problem in your life. Whether you need to pay bills, find true love or land that perfect job, you are the one who can make it happen when you stand in your power. Follow the flow of energy that opens up the doors for you to step through to your greatest dreams. You always have the key; the door is only locked by your own limited thinking. As you open up to receive with patience and trust, you will reach your true destiny in love and life.

About Debi Berndt

Debi Berndt and Dr. Robert Maldonado are the co-founders of Creative Love™, a personal development company that helps people attract, master and teach love. They’ve worked with thousands of singles across the world to find true love and their Creative Love™ Process is now taught in 13 different languages.

Debi is the author of the bestselling book, LET LOVE IN and Robert holds a Ph.D. in psychology and is an expert in Jungian Psychology, Eastern Philosophy, Yoga and Meditation.

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