Welcome to the real psychology of love.

Debi Berndt and Roberto Maldonado

What if the reason you are still single (and not engaged) has less to do with you being broken and more to do with how you look at relationships in general?

There’s a reason you’re not engaged. There’s a reason you are alone.

And the good news is that it’s not your fault (well, consciously).

The truth is that finding the love of your life does not happen by accident. It’s the result of creating what we call…

Conscious Chemistry™:
the creation of a powerful attraction with the person who is meant for the true you.

In our Engaged in a Year™ Program, we’ll show you how to stop hoping to find love, and FINALLY find it.

In this program we’ll show you:

  • Why finding love shouldn’t be so hard
  • The unconscious patterns that actually prevent you from finding your ideal partner
  • How to stop fixing yourself and become aware of what it is you truly want
  • How to make peace with yourself
  • How to find the love of your life and fall passionately in love
  • FINALLY! Get that shiny diamond on your ring finger or give one to a special someone

Debi Berndt Officiating WeddingA Successful Creative Love Story

“It looks like the wedding will probably be May 18th.

I’m really excited! Thanks.

I really do think the visualizations for attracting a loving partner was what helped draw us to each other!”

C.B. | Denver, CO

P.S. Look closely! That’s me, Debi Berndt, officiating her wedding in beautiful Colorado!

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Fairytale LoveDear currently single (but soon to be engaged) person:

If you’re one of the millions of women and men who have been seduced by Hollywood, then this story may seem familiar to you:

    • From the time you were a child you were told that true love magically finds you on your own. That love is a happy accident that happens when you are buying groceries on a random Tuesday.
    • That if you followed certain rules and adhered to Hollywood’s vision of true love, then your prince (or princess) charming would arrive to sweep you off your feet and carry you into the sunset to live happily ever after
    • Of course, when your prince never arrives (and if they did, you found out they weren’t all that charming), you were taught that it was your fault that they never came or that they ran off with another maiden, or as the saying goes, “they’re just not that into you.”

From a young age, you were told that being single was wrong. That choosing not to settle means you were somehow broken and incomplete. That finding love should be treated like a job. A chore. A desperate search. Yet deep down you believe finding love should not be this difficult.

And even though you know this you stop listening to yourself and what you truly want in a relationship and listen more and more to the misguided advice of others.

You trust the words of people who haven’t dated in twenty or thirty years, have been married multiple times or never had a healthy relationship.

You trust them to help you find love, to help you get engaged, because after all, you’re not. In a clouded attempt to help you, they create new rules that only lead you to feeling more confused.

So you keep listening to what they have to say.

You pay attention when they say if you want to find true love you must:

Love Rules
    • Not be too fat
    • Not be too skinny
    • Don’t have too much money, but don’t be broke
    • Be independent, but don’t be too successful
    • Play hard to get, but don’t play games. Wait 3 days to call
    • Take it slow. Speed it up

It’s no wonder you’re not engaged. Everyone’s running around confused about love!

Falling In LoveWhat if you were perfect just as you are? What if there was nothing to fix?

What if the secret to getting engaged wasn’t about fixing something broken or healing some wound but, instead, awakening yourself to what it is you are truly looking for on a deeper spiritual level? What if we busted open the soul mate myth and shone the light on all the nonsensical advice.

What if we can give you the means and way to find the love of your life in a few short months?


“Hi Deb, So, first I want to tell you that I have found love this summer!!!! I bought the 7 set MP3 set from you and listened to at least one session every day!!! And at the same time, I stopped worrying about it… and lo and behold, I met Aaron! I am singing from the rooftops! I have been waving your book around as I sing! I’ve given a copy of your book to 4 of my friends so far!!!! They are into it too!” — Mari Ruddy | Denver, Colorado”
“THANKS so much as always for all this help. I feel like a totally different person because of my work with you. It’s been the equivalent of about 5 years and $10,000 worth of therapy.” — C.G. | New York City, NY
“It’s a great gift to myself. I deserve it and so does every one. Highly recommend it.” – Anonymous
“First time ever, when I don´t feel broken or weird. I learned that there is nothing wrong with me. I know there is a unique purpose that I came to fulfill in my life. It is ok that it will not always fit the society habits, it is ok that I haven´t found it yet. I don´t judge myself for my path of exploring and expressing my true self.” – Anonymous
“I really enjoy being in this program and don’t regret it a single day.”   -Anonymous

What if finding love was actually … fun?

Find Love

What if we didn’t treat it as a finish line of desperation, but an adventure? What if we didn’t make it feel like a job?


We understand that finding the love of your life does not have to be a hope, but an eventuality. It begins with becoming conscious of what you truly want and then learning to attract that into your life.

We developed a program for educated women and men who are ready for a deep shift without all the therapy-based drama. We know you are a mature, smart person who is looking for real answers and you don’t want to play dating games anymore.


Introducing …


Is it possible to find the partner of your dreams in just a few months?

When you become conscious of what you truly want in your life, you can learn how to attract it and make it a reality — FAST. The reality is that most people remain single or don’t find fulfilling relationships because they are not conscious of their romantic choices.

We know true love isn’t about having the right profile or learning how to flirt or even where to look. True love shows up when you become conscious of why you are holding yourself back from having the love you want.

Until you uncover who you are on a deep level and who you’re really looking for, you won’t know how to consciously attract him (or her).



Debi Berndt and Roberto MaldonadoHow do I know about this?

This is Debi. I was single into my forties and felt trapped by my own mind in trying to figure out my blocks, heal my wounds and rehash my childhood. This only made me go deeper into despair feeling as though nothing was going to change. What actually made a difference was that I stopped fixing myself and start seeing life as a new possibility. I transformed my mind on the unconscious level which had kept me trapped in my default relationship mode and I uncovered my true self.

I found the love of my life when I was 41 years old and now we work together to liberate singles across the world to stop fixing themselves and to see the amazing person they already are. My name is Debi Berndt and I am the author of the bestselling book, “Let Love In: Open Your Heart & Mind to Attract Your Ideal Partner.” (Wiley 2010).

The love of my life and business partner, Dr. Roberto Maldonado (Doctor of Philosophy) and I have developed the Creative Love — Love Attraction Formula based on Jung’s work and eastern philosophy. We believe that the journey to true love isn’t about going on lots of dates and having the right profile, but about understanding how your mind works and how to create conscious chemistry with your ideal partner.


Engaged in a Year™ is where finding love is not just a possibility…but an eventuality.

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Successful Creative Love Stories

“We are getting married on May 18th! This work changed my life” — C.B. | Denver, Colorado

“I can’t believe I actually got engaged in a year!” — G.W. | Galveston, TX

“He’s better than I imagined he would be.” — G.C. | Chicago, IL

“I am on cloud ten! Thank you for helping us find each other.” — T.C. | Toronto, CANADA

“We met 8 weeks after we started working together and just celebrating our one year wedding anniversary!” — A.D., New York, NY

“I’ve never been treated so well. This is the one!” — C.O. | Columbus, OH

“I’m engaged! Thank you so much for your guidance in drawing my true love to me.” — C.A. | Saudi Arabia

“Forget about Get Engaged in a year, you should call the program completely change your life mastermind, I got so much more than I expected!” — N.C. | Dublin, Ireland

I am now in a relationship that’s beyond my wildest dreams.

“I felt I had lost all hope of meeting a truly good man that I would also fall in love with. After a lot of not-so-great relationships, I felt I kept making one bad choice after another. Not having much else to lose, I kept with our program and did my homework. Not only did I meet the most amazing man a month after writing that email, we now live together in a beautiful apartment, about to take our relationship to the next level. I’m so grateful for Debi for not letting me settle, for guiding me to make better choices and helping me find the love and respect for me and through that, the most loving, respectful relationship that’s beyond my wildest dreams.”

— Annabella | NYC


This is much more than about finding love.

“I was in a spot in my life where I knew I needed to change.  That life had so much more to offer and I did not want to go on living the way I was anymore.  I had an urge inside me to find the greatness within myself.  Something others could see, but I did not believe in.   I was asking the universe for guidance and stumbled upon something from Debi online.   I have been in this program since May 2013 and just signed up for my second extension!  I am invested in the journey and (mostly) not worried about the end result as I know it will be exactly what I want it to be.  My life has changed so much since beginning EIY.  I am confident, grounded and happy.  I am so much more successful at work; finding opportunities I thought were ‘beyond my reach’.  I even lost 30 pounds (shadows and projections were weighing me down!).  People (even my executive boss) say, “Wow Stacey, you are a completely different person”.  I know I am not a different person, I am just finally in touch with my true self.   I have made so many new and lasting friendships.  Meeting men that are interested in dating me is easy.   I glow and love sharing my energy and love with everyone around me.  Have I met my husband yet, no.  Have I established the spiritual foundation and understanding of my true self, Yes!”.  Thank you Debi and Roberto. Thank you with all of my heart for entering my life at the right time, for being fun, energetic and caring teachers and mentors.” – S. Sullivan, Cambridge, MA
“EIY Program challenges the conventional way of thinking thus making it one of the “richest” material and content I have come across with. It has enriched my life, my thought process and looking forward to greater shifts in my life’s journey.”
PD – Dubai
“First time ever, when I don´t feel broken or weird. I learned that there is nothing wrong with me. I know there is a unique purpose that I came to fulfill in my life. It is ok that it will not always fit the society habits, it is ok that I haven´t found it yet. I don´t judge myself for my path of exploring and expressing my true self.” – Anonymous



Find My SoulmateThere are a lot of programs out there that talk about core beliefs and positive thinking and learning about your past patterns that drive your current relationships. So, you are probably really, really aware of these patterns and think you understand why your relationships are not working —but still things aren’t changing. WHY?

Because what you need to find out is what you are NOT AWARE OF that is UNCONSCIOUS that is holding you back from your true love.

Carl Jung famously said, “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you think of it as fate.”

You cannot change what you are not aware of.

In our Engaged in a Year™ Group Coaching Program, we will help you tune into the process of becoming your true self that is already happening inside of you. Once you activate the process with our work, you will start to accelerate your own transformation and the force within you that desires true love will CARRY YOU and GUIDE YOU to your amazing partner.

No more struggling to figure it out and making it work, you tap into the flow and become a unified part of the transformational nature of your true self

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“This program has given me a new way of living. I realized that this isn’t just about finding love. This is about a new way to live. I am so peaceful within myself it moves me to tears. Why did I wait so long for this?”
“I thought I wanted and needed a man to feel this way. I am so happy right now that when loves comes along it will be the topping.”
“I have a whole new life. I moved out of my parent’s home and stopped tolerating their abusive and toxic relationship. I changed careers and I joined a dating site. I NEVER would have done any of this before this program.”



Here’s What You Get…


Creative Love® – THE PROCESS

Six (6) Modules with lectures, exercises and meditations delivered LIVE on webcast to open your mind & heart to true love plus time for LIVE Q&A with Debi & Rob on each call!  You also have four bonus Q&A Calls where you can call-in and ask Debi & Rob any questions about the process.  You have LIFETIME access to the replays and all downloads with your very own login and password account.

Modules Include:

  • Discover the Creative Source of Love and Life – you will get a deeper understanding of what some people have called the law of attraction and how to use your mind to experience true love.
  • In Defense of Love  — Reveal the mask you wear that keeps you from your ideal relationship and let go of your fear of intimacy for lasting love.
  • Uncover Your Love Shadow™ – Embrace all parts of you including your hidden virtues and understand how the shadow projects on to others so you can feel free to interact in relationships with ease and power.
  • The Power of Your Unconscious — Free your feelings without having to fix them and use the energy of your emotions for transformation.
  • Meet your Inner Soulmate — Discover your Inner Adam® or Inner Eve, the puzzle piece that matches with your potential mates. Carl Jung called this the Anima/Animus. Learn how this inner archetype dictates every person you are romantically attracted to in your life.  Transform this part to get the love you want.
  • Power of Imagination — Understand the role of dreams in your romantic life and how to use visualization to interact with your unconscious to guide you to your true love. Featuring a special dream interpretation Q&A section!


  • Your Creative Love® Code – Discover your default and transform your Love Code to align with your ideal vision of love. Develop a new love philosophy that will be the foundation of a lasting relationship.
  • Living Creative Love® Every Day – Building a Spiritual Foundation for Love and Life and using the process as a guide for the rest of your life.


Creative Love® Group Coaching Q&A with Debi and Dr. Robert!

Four (4) Group Coaching Calls with Debi Berndt and Dr. Robert with live coaching on the calls!

Dig deeper into the process and get personal laser coaching live with Debi & Robert to deepen your understanding of each lesson.

Your Creative Love® Private Coaching Session

Creative Love® Coaching Session with a Certified Creative Love Coach

One (1) 30 Minute PRIVATE Coaching Session with one of our highly-trained love coaches to give you private and intimate guidance on your journey to true love.


Creative Love® Club Community Access

Private Facebook Group for Program Members — Q&A with Coaching and all the members from across the world


Creative Love® Visions

Highly-effective visualizations to work with your unconscious mind for deep transformation, plus dream integration and creative imagination exercises. Lifetime access to all visualizations.

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Not a superficial dating program. This is the real deal.

The Engaged in a Year™ Program is based on real psychology. Developed by Dr. Robert Maldonado (Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology) and Debi Berndt (Clinical Hypnotherapist). Everything we teach is based on depth psychology and eastern philosophy, greatly influenced by the Swiss Psychologist, Carl G. Jung. This is a deep, profound life-changing experience that incorporates body, mind and spirit (without all the woo).

We know there are many programs out there that claim to help you with dating and love.  The Creative Love Process isn’t right for everyone. This program is perfect for educated people who are ready for a profound change in their life, not superficial dating tricks and tips.

To see if this one is right for you, you need to know what this program is NOT:

  • Dating Tips, Flirting Techniques or Writing the Perfect Profile
  • Healing or clearing wounds from past or other random forms of psychic surgery
  • Magical Potions or incantations to conjure a Soul mate
  • Fad techniques that only work on the conscious level (disguised with scientific words to make them seem like they real science or psychology)
  • Creating the “perfect ego persona” to catch a man or woman that is only on the surface
  • Replacing negative with positive beliefs and re-arranging the furniture of your mindset without ever reaching the core of why you are resisting love
  • How the opposite sex thinks (as if everyone was the same) so you can manipulate their attraction and put on act to “capture” them or make them love you.
  • Make-overs, fashion tips or weight loss
  • Family therapy or forgiving your parents or relatives for not being nice to you
  • You won’t need to know the best places to find men or women and how to get yourself out there because…

after you do Engaged in a Year…..love will find you without all the dating work!

Yes, I want to join Engaged in A Year™!

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 Our Guarantee

GuaranteeSo, here’s what we think about guarantees. We cannot in good faith guarantee any specific outcome because the main variable is YOU and your dedication to open up to the process. We do not guarantee that you will meet a man in 90 days, although that has happened very often. We believe that LOVE is your PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY and don’t want you to leave it up to some magical pill to transform your life without your participation. It just doesn’t happen. Those who guarantee any outcome of their work are basically lying to you and themselves because no one has that kind of power over another person and their growth process.

However, we do know that our work is high-level, advanced spiritual process unlike anything else that you ever experienced. We offer a 30-Day review guarantee. You experience program for 30 days and, if you feel like the material is not a good fit for you in your stage in personal development, we will refund your money less $250 processing fee. We do believe though that you found this page because something in you is searching for the truth. There are no accidents and we hope that you listen to your true self v. your ego and take the journey with us that will transform your life.